SOME OF THE BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVER!!
1. Choose to love each other even in those moments when you struggle to like each other. Love is a commitment, not a feeling.
2. Make time together a priority. Budget for a consistent date night. Time is the “currency of relationships” so consistently invest time into your marriage.
3. Surround yourself with friends who will strengthen your marriage and remove yourself from people who may tempt you to compromise your character.
4. Make laughter the soundtrack of your marriage. Share moments of joy, and even in the hard times, find reasons to laugh.
5. Prioritize what happens in the bedroom. It takes more than sex to build a strong marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a strong marriage without it!
6. Remember that marriage isn’t 50-50, divorce is 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100. It’s not splitting everything in half, but both partners giving everything they’ve got!
7. Learn from other people, but don’t feel the need to compare your life or your marriage to anyone else’s. God’s plan for your life is masterfully unique!
8. Never keep secrets from each other. Secrecy is the enemy of intimacy.
9. Never lie to each other. Lies break trust and trust is the foundation of a strong marriage.
10. When you’ve made a mistake, admit it and humbly seek forgiveness. You should be quick to say, “I was wrong. I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”
11. When your husband/wife breaks your trust, give them your forgiveness instantly which will promote healing and create the opportunity for trust to be rebuilt. You should be quick to say, “I love you. I forgive you. Let’s move forward.”
12. Never talk badly about your spouse to other people or vent about them online. Protect your spouse at all times and in all places.
13. Always wear your wedding ring. It will remind you that you’re always connected to your spouse and it will remind the rest of the world that you’re off limits!
14. When you have to choose between saying nothing or saying something mean to your spouse, say nothing every time!
15. Never consider divorce as an option. Remember that a “perfect marriage” is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
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“SMART WIFE SECRETS OF A HAPPY HOME”
1) No man is perfect and both of you are imperfect humans
2) Study your husband and build him up so he can lead the ffamily as God planned.
3) Hear quickly; talk slowly. Stay calm and sweet.
4) Never compete with a man. Stroke his delicate ego.
5) Never try to be equal with him. God made man first.
6) Be fast to apologize when you know you are wrong.
7) Don't be too jealous with him. This is good for your peace of mind. Remember you have marriage ownership papers on him. He is yours who always comes home to you.
8) Don't check his phone without his permission. ASK HIM CAN YOU. He will have female old friends, co-workers, and relatives still on his phone so don't assume cheating.
9) Always be honest as a wife and keep family business private. Family and friends are not trained to counsel you.
10) Never leave your house for a long distance without his permission.
12) Plan and cook delicious quick meals with your cook book if you work also. Eating at home leaves you more money for shopping.
14) Be his adviser, not a critiser.
15) Don't ever forget that a wife is a helper of her husband.
16) Learn the good things your mother taught you.
17) When God blesses you with children, never give more attention to your children and forget your husband.
18) Learn to smile at your husband.
19) When your husband knocks off from work, greet him. If possible, hug him.
20) Don't let your husband leave the house without eating. This may mean "eat" and "eat".
21) When your husband becomes angry, stop talking and let things cool down then sweetly have a conversation.
22) Keep the bedroom clean and smelling sexy always
23) Never put cloths on the bed. Some men hate that.
24) Be a clean woman with good smelling baths
25) Look romantic even in your liesure and bed outfits
26) Always remember to do what a wife should do. You are not his sister. Make love often and don't leave temptation anything to steal.
27) Treat his relatives as you would treat yours.
28) Oftentimes ask how his relatives are doing.
29) Go for pray and worship together.
30) Never compare your husband or your house to someone else's.
31) APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE 👌
WHAT MEN ACCUSE WOMEN OF WHEN IT COMES TO SEX AND MARRIAGE
1. Many women dress up for the public but they don't put as much effort to dress up for their husband in bed. Lady, your number one audience is your man
2. Many women complain that their husbands don't sex them well, yet they do not express what they want their husbands to sexually do to them. Lady, your man doesn't read minds
3. Many women are shy in bed, largely because of their low self esteem making the husband feel as if he is forcing a sexual encounter with her since she comes off as disengaged in the act. Lady work on your self esteem, it directly affects your sex life
4. Many women do not praise their husband's performance in bed even when he is good. Lady, the more you talk well about his penis, the way he touches you, the way he licks you; the more he wants to please you. Work on his ego
5. Many women belittle their husband, talk down at him with disrespect and then expect him to give great sex. Lady, when you undermine him and talk to him as if he is not man enough because he doesn't earn "enough money", he has failed in his goals a few times; be sure he will not be so interested in making love to you
6. Many women are inactive during sex because they think it is the husband's role to lead in sex. So she lies in bed, lifeless, passive and bored expecting him to do all the sexual heavy lifting. Lady, men too want to be sexually made advances on: both of you giving, both of you taking
7. Many women think that complaining and nagging will get a man to do the right thing. What they fail to realize is that it only leads to the man repelling the woman, he will struggle to desire to kiss her and touch her. She will drain him. To get a man to do what you want, inspire him, compliment him for the good he has done so far, show him how doing right makes you smile because men love to be the reason a woman smiles. Then in bed, he will pursue you because he feels safe with you
8. Many women though they do not have sexual intercourse with another man, they are emotionally unfaithful. They engage another man or men in intimate discussions and chats as they wonder why the husband is angry at this. This makes the husband feel put off
9. Many women complain that the man is talking too much about sex, they tell him off. When the man tones down on the sex talk, the woman complains and becomes insecure, doubting whether he still finds her sexy
10. Many women use sex as a weapon. During an argument, they employ silent treatment as a tactic denying him his conjugal rights. Soon, the man gets used to living without her sex and suddenly she is the one who desperately wants sex just to prove to herself all is well in their marriage but the damage is already done
11. Many women do not observe good hygiene. When their weave stinks, armpits smell of sweat and the vagina area is not well maintained; he will struggle to have sex with her. Lady, stay clean
12. Many women, especially conservative or Christian women view sex as dirty or of the world and so they don't fully release themselves in it, even in marriage. This is perhaps because they grew up being told "NO SEX" that they fail to realize sex is Godly and God's gift to nourish and sweeten their marriage. God created your body for pleasure with your spouse. Don't fuss and quote the Bible to control him, just put what you want up to God in prayer and he will get the message to your husband at a non-emotional quiet time.
13. Many women are rigid when it comes to sex, "Don't do this, I can't do that" - making sex an uphill task. Lady, relax; allow your body to be explored or he thinks to himself, why did I marry her or he might let another woman help you out doing the parts of sex you won't do.
14. Many women don't know how to say no to their husband. Wives even when you feel you are not in the mood for sex because of your monthly periods, you are sick, your mood is low or you're tired; don't just brush him off. If you will not give him sex still make him feel loved. Cuddle with him, kiss him, have an intimate pillow talk, tell him you love him, tell him he will get some hot sex when he wakes up; do not make him feel ignored
15. Many women think that the best thing they have to offer is great sex and so they do not work on themselves, their attitude, their character, their dreams and individual progress. They only concentrate on getting tips on how to be sexy, how to twerk, how to squat, how to keep the vagina tight and not content to grow their mind, their business, their spirit. Eventually the man grows tired, drained and feels empty with her. A man needs more than a few hot minutes in bed
16. Many women compare how their current sex life is with the sex life they had with an ex or exes. Lady, the old is gone, the new has come. Hope I'm communicating???
17. Remember single beautiful women might try to steal your husband because he is stable, patient, attentive to you and more, therefore you should not assume no one else will want your husband.
18. Divorce Courts say 90% of divorces are filed by wives who think that a high value man educated rich men who makes more than their husbands, will want them and because they are sexy looking, college educated and have a house or luxury car. Those high value men will not want these women because they feel divorced women did not stay and build with their former husbands and might divorce him and take 1/2 of his assets that he built or own over the years.
19 Wives, your husbands are the prize and not you. You are the help mate, but loved by your husband and lives for his wife and kids when respected. Respect is king for men. Married men get their instructions from God directly
20. Husbands feel older educated women are not teachable and very seldom agree or listen to their husbands and will contradict or challenge him at every opportunity. Example: if the husband says women don't listen, the wife will say: well the men don't either, instead of hearing him out and just saying you might be right honey, am I like that? If he says, yes or sometimes dear, then you shouldn't get mad or argumentative, think about what he said and make an adjustment to do better. If you argue, and while you are fussing, he starts thinking about the woman at work that seems non argumentative and sweet, would not disturb his peace at home with arguments.